Poetry & Prose


RATIONALE

When the snowdrop photo competition was introduced, it made me think of what snowdrops mean to me personally. I have some growing in a container which was a gift from my late son and, consequently, the container and the snowdrops mean a great deal to me.

I have always loved snowdrops – not just for their simplistic beauty, but because they are a delicate reminder of better things to come. Although the winter is still with us, the snowdrop is the herald of the Spring flowers that lift all our spirits.

Snowdrops bring hope just like the charity Hope After Suicide Loss and, also like the charity, no single snowdrop is ever alone for long.
I decided to run with this corollary and my short poem, Hope, is the result. I hope you like it…

HOPE

Snowdrop

Lone snowdrop, struggled to seek the light
Dark winter, covered, always night
Spring awaits, above ground it’s drawn
To the light and air, clear, sharp morn
This year, alone, it pushed itself on
And persevered, the watery sun
Its reward, the battle won
O’er darkest earth, and light to come

Just for now alone it grows
Twelve months hence a group will show
No longer will it single stand
But share its space – a snowdrop band
Not now alone, for others came
And at first glance they’re all the same
But each’s place is quite unique
And together they have found their niche

Snowdrops
Snowdrops

© A M Maxwell


Poem To A Son

He was such a happy boy
No trouble at all
He brought us so much joy
His smile said it all

Never in a million years
Did it ever enter my mind
There would be so many tears
That life could be so unkind

Six years have passed
We’ve struggled on
The memories last
Of my beautiful son

Today we celebrate Matthew’s birthday
We celebrate the life he had
We celebrate his life everyday
We celebrate our wonderful lad

His spirit continues living
He lives on in my heart
The art is in forgiving
Compassion plays a part

He wouldn’t want anyone to suffer
His aim was to make lives better
We need to all help each other
Be happy! And not bitter

© H Percy



Joanne

Path – This poem was written by a survivor profoundly affected by suicide and now accessing phone support


Trev


fresialh   If love alone could have saved them, they would not have died   fresirh

June and Vic


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Anne


The Little Room

"The Little Room"When you left me, you placed me in a little room. A sad room. A lonely room. A dark room. Hardly any light at all. Laughter and happiness didn’t belong there. Being there was my punishment for not loving you enough. Not seeing  all the signs.  For failing you. What kind of a husband was I ? …

The sun struggled to penetrate the tiny barred window to my little room. The angry graffiti on the walls in big red letters read ‘Why?’, ‘What if?’, ‘If only…’

I heard others outside my room. The normal ones. Life carried on for them. They laughed, they loved, they lived.

Life hardly moved in my little room. I thought if only I could understand this terrible thing that had happened, then everything might be okay—I must understand—I really must. I researched. I needed to know why. Why did she have to leave me that way? Did she suffer terribly at the end? How did I miss the signs? What if I’d loved her more? 

Time passed—Slowly—Oh so slowly. The more I tried to understand why, the less I understood. And always that pain: oh how my heart ached. It’s true what they say—hearts can be broken!

Time slowly passed, and one day I noticed it was a little lighter in my room. The angry red graffiti seemed harder to read. Like it was fading. Occasionally I would leave the room, but I always returned. I didn’t belong outside. The room seemed familiar, my safe place. I belonged there—didn’t I?

The angry graffiti gradually faded. The ‘why’ had become a blur. ‘What if’ had nearly disappeared. ‘If only’ had become just a faded smudge of red colour. But some new letters started appearing on the inside of the door to my little room. But they were indistinct—I tried to trace their outline—what did they spell?

More time passed and my room seemed brighter. The sun seemed to penetrate the tiny window. When did those bars disappear? I didn’t even notice they had gone.

I ventured out more and more. My little room seemed less safe now. Sometimes I laughed and lived with the normal folk. How could I do that? Surely did not deserve to live with the ‘normal’ people?  I was flawed, wasn’t I?

Even more time passed, and my little room seemed much brighter now. I could feel the heat from the sun and the angry graffiti had all but gone. My room was better but I knew I didn’t belong in that little room any longer—I could even read the letters on the door to my room— ‘Acceptance’.

So I pushed that door open and walked out of my little room and  I knew this was where I was meant to be. I knew that was where you, (my dear departed wife), would want me to be—not trapped in a small dark room. For you had been trapped in your own room, infinitely worse than mine, but sadly you were unable to escape yours and walk out into the light. You just didn’t know how.

On occasions I briefly return to my little room. Just briefly. But I know I don’t belong there any more and I know I will not stay. My place is with the ones that live, love and laugh. 

And as I walk away from my little room I notice big bold graffiti on the walls. It reads ‘I am not perfect. I did my best’. And I know that you, my dear wife, also did your best. And I will always love you for that.

And I read those words and I smile—A sad smile.

Chris 


Here is a poem from native American Indians about grief

I give you this one thought to keep I am with you still I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn rain
I am the soft stars that shine at night I am the quiet birds of circled flight –
do not think of me as gone I am with you still in each new dawn ……

David

David'sPoem


On losing a husband…

Without You
The days without you are lonely,
The nights without you are cold,
But even though you are gone now
That burning passion will never grow old.
Sometimes I cry myself to sleep at night ,
Just knowing that you are gone, but it makes
Me feel better knowing that you are peacefully at Home.
Your body lays at rest now,
It’s Harder than I thought,
Just knowing you are
Gone for good, and thinking it’s all my fault.
Time will have to take its course now,
For There’s nothing left to do.
Just always remember that I still care and that I will
Forever love you.

 © Brittany Callahan


Unconditional Love

“Charlotte  was and is the meaning and sunshine in our lives. Watching her despair and increasing torment the many months leading to her passing was terrible, but knowing that she in now out of pain, not a day goes by without us knowing how blessed we were having even the shortest of times with her in our lives, and feeling grateful that we can feel her pain now, instead of her.”

Hilde


Just imagine for a moment that you are trapped by a huge gang of wicked and sadistic captures.
You believe 100% that there is no chance of escape – ever – ever! Even a brief look at any one of
the gang sends shivers down your spine, adrenaline rushing through your body, absolute terror into
your heart. You know that they are going to harm you, to hurt you in some way, but you have no
idea when or how. Every moment you follow the orders they give as you tremble all over your
body. Have you said something wrong? Did you say something the wrong way? Did they
misunderstand what you meant and now you’ll pay the price? You wonder over and over in your
mind, “is this the moment they set upon you?” Fear pounds your brain when you hear your name
called by one of the unscrupulous leaders. Terror races through your veins causing your heart to
beat so hard that you can hear it beating inside your head. The sweat pouring from your brow as
you struggle to breath from the shear panic inside. You feel like you are suffocating, like your heart
is going to explode, like your stomach is being minced from the inside.

You know without doubt that you are worthless, pathetic, the lowest form of life. You know that
you’re a disgrace to your family, a burden to your friends, that you blight society. No-wonder they
want to harm you so badly, torment you for their pleasure, and punish you for ever daring to exist.

At night you lay there unable to sleep, like you’re waiting in purgatory for that one voice to call you
to your demise… and why shouldn’t they? You are not fit to be part of the human race.

You hear their loud voices laughing like an evil chant. Are they talking about you? Are they
planning ways to torture you – ways to trick you into thinking you may actually be safe only to rip
you apart the moment your back it turned?

The utter despair rages war on every ounce of your being. As you lay there you know that your life
is over already, that this is your everyday, your tomorrow, your forever. You know that you are
trapped, that you are totally helpless and completely at the mercy of people whose sole purpose is
to thrive on the misery of others.

The sadness in your soul darkens every minute of your existence. Your spirit crushed beyond repair.
You will not escape! There is nothing you can do! You know that every day will lead to more
terror, more torment, and more torture of your mind as the uncertainty destroys your spirit and
quashes every bit of hope you ever had of help, of being free again.

Then it suddenly becomes clear. You feel calm. You know how to get away – how to end the slow
and terrifying annihilation of the very fabric that made you the person you once were. There is a
way to escape. You do know how to be free – the one way to make sure that they cannot hurt you.
After all, your life is already over so why are you living in this hell? You can end it now. There is no
point in being alive… is there?

Welcome to the world of mental illness. How do you think you would fare if you were captured?

Understanding is the start of helping sufferers. It is as much an illness as any other. It is very real.
It can be crippling. It can be terminal! Don’t you think it’s time the world accepted these facts?

Please give help where you can. Even a tiny gesture can make a massive difference.

©2016 – Adam Hunter – Feel free share