Who We Are

Lucy Katherine Coote Trustee | Community Ambassador, Trainer, and Bereavement Support Facilitator

Lucy Coote works for Rosedale Funeral Home as a Community Ambassador, Trainer, and Bereavement Support Facilitator with over fifteen years of experience in the funeral industry. She specialises in supporting the bereaved as well as offering specialised support for those bereaved by suicide, facilitating support groups that has helped hundreds of families navigate loss.

A Mental Health First Aid Trainer for MHFA England, Lucy is passionate about breaking the stigma around mental health and empowering communities with the skills to support those in need. As well as serving as a trustee for Hope After Suicide Loss and Waveney Enterprise she is actively involved in the Norfolk SPIG and Norfolk and Waveney Suicide Awareness Partnership.

ASIST trained and a member of Compassionate Communities, Lucy developed a specialised training programme for professionals supporting suicide-bereaved families. Her work ensures timely, effective support that saves lives by connecting the bereaved with the right resources. In 2019, Lucy became an ambassador for At a Loss, a national signposting charity, further championing access to bereavement support across the UK.

Revd Canon Chris Copsey | Trustee

Chris has been a primary school teacher, Parish Councillor and Chairman of Governors for a large infant and nursery school and is Mum to three adult children with 7 grandchildren between them.

Before ordination as an Anglican Self Supporting Minister in 2007, she was a licensed lay minister for 9 years across 7 rural parishes.

She has been at the Minster Church in Kings Lynn since 2008 whilst working as Chaplain to Norfolk County Council from 2007-2014, before moving to a chaplaincy with the Matthew Project for 3 years.

In 2011 Chris was licensed by the Bishop of Norwich as Chaplain to the Norfolk Coroner, a unique chaplaincy in the UK. She provides pastoral care to those attending inquests, particularly families.

Chris is Chair of the Norfolk and Waveney Suicide bereavement Support Partnership and is coordinator for the Norfolk Justice Forum.

She arranges an annual service of remembrance for those bereaved by suicide at Norwich Cathedral and Kings Lynn Minster.

She was installed as an Honorary Canon of Norwich Cathedral in November 2017.

Chris with husband Graham is a passionate follower of rugby and they are season ticket holders with Leicester Tigers.

Luka Uğurlu | Trustee

Luka lives in Suffolk and studied at UEA in Norwich. He works as a Management Consultant in the not-for-profit sector, delivering transformation projects and offering strategic support & advice to Local Authorities & charitable organisations across the UK.

He has also supported schools, multi-academy trusts & councils in the recruitment of educational psychologists and SEND professionals. 

He and his partner are keen cyclists and love to use a bike ride as an opportunity to explore (pubs in) the countryside.

Dan Pennock | Trustee

Dan has an adult son who lives in Cornwall and an adult daughter who lives in Bristol. Babysitting duties for his four grandchildren are therefore necessarily minimal due to geography!

Dan spent most of his working life in the commercial sector with a stint as a NHS Complaints Advocate and a spell with the Health and Social care watchdog for Suffolk after the financial crisis of 2008. As retirement loomed he commenced volunteering in the health and social care sector. First was as a Samaritan for seven years followed by supporting the creation and early years of Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide in Suffolk. Dan was a Trustee for Suffolk User Forum for a number of years.

Currently Dan is an elected public Governor for Suffolk within the mental health Trust (NSFT), co-chair of the Swan Surgery Patient Participation Group and sits as a member of the Suffolk County Council Suicide Risk Reduction group. He is also trained in the Mental Health Act and chairs hearings of lay persons who sit to determine whether people should continue to be Sectioned under the Act. Dan is also appointed as a Patient and Public Voice representative working on an ad hoc basis within specialist mental health commissioning for NHS England.

When not engaged in all of the above Dan devotes too much time to Toby the cocker spaniel and not enough time to his allotment. A modest enthusiasm for real ale completes the picture.

Ian Dallas – Trustee

I currently live in Norwich with my wife, Carol. Our two grown up children have left home and are now happily doing their own thing. No grandchildren as yet, however dog sitting now seems to be a common thing with us!

I retired around 4 years ago, having spent most of my career heading up Procurement teams for large manufacturing organisations.

I now enjoy spending my retirement travelling and seeing the world (effectively having the gap years I didn’t have when I was younger!). As well as travelling, I can also be found at least twice a week on the golf course trying to lower my handicap.

I am a long-suffering season ticket holder at Norwich City Football Club and can be found there on most match days.

I am also a listening volunteer at Norwich Samaritans and try to do at least one or two listening shifts a week.

Gary Page | Trustee

Gary was born in London, grew up in Barking and Dagenham and studied History at Cambridge University. After University he worked for 22 years in Banking, predominantly at ABN AMRO Bank, before leaving the City in 2008.  In 2009 Gary moved to Suffolk 

Since leaving the City Gary has held a number of Non-Executive Director and Trustee positions in the charitable, public and private sector. He chaired the Board of Trustees for the Ian Mikardo Charitable Trust which supported a School providing secondary education for boys with Social Emotional and Behavioural Difficulties in Tower Hamlets and spent 6 years as Chair of the Board for the Hoffmann Foundation for Autism which provides services for adults with autism. 

Between 2012 and 2018 he was a Board member of the Mental Health Trust in Norfolk and Suffolk (NSFT) firstly as a Non-Executive Director and for the last 5 years as Chair. Gary was a Member of the Supervisory Board of one of Europe’s largest sustainable banks, Triodos Bank N.V. for two years and in March 2019 he stepped down to take up the position of Chair of the Banks newly formed UK subsidiary, Triodos Bank UK Limited. He is also a Non Executive Director at the Student Loans Company, Scottish National Investment bank and sits on Employment Tribunals in East Anglia. 

Gary has two children from a previous marriage and his interests include current affairs, gardening, travel and cooking.

Stephanie Doel | Beareavement Peer Support Worker

Steph is our Bereavement Peer Support worker, she joined HOPE in July 2026 Steph will be facilitating our listening support service and joining some of our Suffolk Groups.

She has a background in special needs teaching and support and works in private practice as a qualified psychotherapist.

Steph has volunteered for Home Start, St Elizabeths Hospice and currently as a listening volunteer for Samaritans. She has her own lived experience of suicide
bereavement and the emotional impact of this kind of loss.

She tells us, In my spare time I am a single mum to 3 school age children and a bouncy labradoodle! I love walks in the forest and swimming in the sea along with gardening and painting.

Colin Wilson | Trustee

I live in Norwich and have 3 grown up sons who all live independently. I love travelling and have recently returned from a hike to the summit of Kilimanjaro. Work for the past 20+ years has been as a project manager in information technology in both the public and private sectors. I have been fortunate to live and work overseas including Tokyo, Stockholm, Paris and Geneva and am very happily settled now in Norfolk. I love hiking and dogs and am often striding along our wonderful coastline.

Nettie Burns | Charity Coordinator

Nettie lives in Suffolk and has grown up children who she’s see often. She enjoys being outside in her garden and walking her dogs in all weathers.

She joined HOPE after suicide loss in January 2026. Her role includes supporting the day to day running of the charity and helping survivors who make contact with us to access support that is right for them.

Nettie worked as a mental health nurse for more than 40 years on the wards and community and more recently in management and governance roles. She has also been a trustee for several local organisations.